What is a sure-fire, proven and guaranteed system? Well in my case it was simply one that worked.
When I was going through a break up, I discovered a simple to follow system that I could easily put into action.
After about six or seven weeks we were together again. Things are better now than they ever were.
That was the abridged version of events. The truth is it took a bit more effort on my part.
The system came with some great psychological tricks to get her doing what I wanted. Or at least that was the plan.
Step one of the system was to get her to call me without me asking outright. I left a coded message on her voicemail and it worked a treat.
Within 24 hours she was on the phone to me even though I didn’t ask her to in the the voicemail message.
Next was a few tricks involving her favorite stuff. If she telephoned I would have her fav song on in the background.
This psychologically linked me to her fav song. So she couldn’t really think of the song without thinking of me.
When she came over to mine I had the smell of her favourite food lingering in the air. This again created a bond between the food and me.
Next up was me talking her into having coffee with me. A very small step in her eyes and one that wasn’t difficult to get her to agree to.
With the first step (coffee) conquered it was fairly simple to ask her to lunch. In her eyes it wasn’t a big deal moving from coffee to lunch.
She was now comfortable with lunch it was an easy leap to ask her on a proper date.
A few dates under our belts and it wasn’t a big deal for her to stay over at mine occasionally.
Next step was to get her to move back in. After all she was now staying over regularly and it seemed to her that the logical step was to move back in.
The system spelled it out that small steps would be easy for her to take. A big step like moving back in after having coffee was out of her comfort zone and probably would have bombed.
This is basically how the system led me from being an emotional cripple to achieving my desire in roughly 6 short weeks. It was really easy to follow and if you follow the steps you’ll get what you crave.
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